Life Management Class Part I
Taking Control of Your Life

 BELIEFS: THE ENERGY CREATING YOUR LIFE

I. IS THE ENERGY YOU’RE SENDING OUT TO THE UNIVERSE CAUSING YOU TO REPEAT THE SAME EXPERIENCES OVER AND OVER? 

If the person who best pushes your buttons, has the opposite or similar issues you need to heal, is in China, he will get on a plane and fly to America where you will meet him in a grocery store. The corresponding energy you’re both putting out will create great magnetism between you and you will fall in love. That is, your bag of garbage will recognize his bag of garbage. That’s what we call love in today’s world, matching bags of garbage. 

Love is an expression of the willingness to create space in which something is allowed to change. Harry Palmer

II. YOUR ENERGY GOES OUT BEFORE YOU AND DOES THE WORK

“What you are, speaks to me so loudly, I cannot hear what you say” Emerson

Have you ever felt uncomfortable in the presence of someone without even speaking to them?  Similarly, do you always look forward to spending time with  certain people and not with others?

Have you ever walked into a room where people have been arguing and suddenly you started to feel agitated or depressed just from the energy in the place?

III. DO YOU WONDER WHY THIS IS HAPPENING TO YOU AGAIN?  IS THE DRAMA FAMILIAR BUT THE PLAYERS HAVE CHANGED?

How did you get where you are?  How did you get yourself into this situation?  How do you get out?  You try to create a new life, but what happens?  It is sabotaged and shattered by lost beliefs.  How do you get on with designing a new life? 

IV.  LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT, WHAT YOU MAKE IT IS WHAT YOU ARE, AND YOU ARE….WHAT YOU BELIEVE YOU ARE…and you can change that belief as often as you want to.

You’re only  as limited as you believe you are, and alternately, you’re as powerful as you believe you are.

To the same degree that you doubt your control over your life, that is the same degree that it will be beyond your control.

 Don’t let what you’re being, get in the way of what you might become. Harry Palmer

V. LIFE IS A REFLECTION OF YOUR BELIEFS. CHANGE YOUR BELIEFS, CHANGE YOUR LIFE.

Personal reality reflects what a person really believes, not always what they are pretending to believe.

You experience what you believe, unless you believe you won’t, in which case you don’t, which means you did.

Lost beliefs form an invisible blueprint for feelings and actions, and without understanding why, we create or attract the circumstances that will fulfill them.

Are there beliefs in your blueprint that are no longer of value?  They need to be discarded before you can recover your native intelligence and direction in life.

VI. BELIEFS CAN BE LIMITING OR EMPOWERING.  They either add to your life or detract from it.

The more beliefs a person has to act and perceive through, the harder it is for them to live the way they want to.  When a person relaxes, their lives unconsciously slip into the pattern of old beliefs.  Lost awareness of old beliefs are responsible for much stress and self-sabotage.  There are many lost beliefs at the bottom of a failing life, a failing relationship or a failing business.

VII. HOW MUCH A BELIEF AFFECTS REALITY IS DETERMINED BY THE MEASURE OF CERTAINTY WITH WHICH IT IS HELD.

 Conviction implies that doubts have been overcome.  What determines for you the degree of certainty in a belief?  

VIII. TRANSPARENT BELIEFS ARE HIDDEN BELIEFS which we unconsciously act through to create our reality.

A belief is transparent when you are operating through the belief without noticing it. Transparent beliefs are seldom helpful and, in fact, can be fatally debilitating.  Most are self-sabotaging, adopted in a moment when you were something less than rational, like in the midst of emotional crisis or turmoil.  (Watching your parents fight and deciding never to get married.)

The first impression you have of a transparent belief is that it is unquestionably true.  That’s just he way life is.  That’s the way I am.  Here’s the proof.  But then something funny happens:  you discover that the proof for holding the belief is actually produced by the belief itself.  A pattern begins to unfold.

Transparent beliefs are discovered by tricking yourself into expressing them and then stepping back and looking at what you said.  Transparent beliefs are often hidden under the desire to be right, so finding transparent beliefs requires a degree of vulnerability and self honestly, which are crucial characteristics for getting rid of old programming and taking control of your life.

 IX. VIEWPOINT SHIFTS THROUGHOUT LIFE

Beliefs can become lost by becoming so familiar that they are forgotten.  It happens after the goal or purpose changes. When the goal as a baby was to be cuddled and cared for by mom, the belief, “I’m cute and helpless,” was assistive and valuable.  One assumed it and it became part of the self. 

Later when the goal changed, the belief was lost, forgotten.  It became transparent.  Now, the person perceives and acts through it without being aware that it’s there.  People lose awareness of what they believe.  As an adult CEO of a company, the belief that you are cute and helpless is not very appropriate for a top executive and will sabotage all your hard work and efforts to get ahead.

X. YOU THOUGHT IT YOU BOUGHT IT 

Remember ‘the seat belts and accidents go together’ story.  In the upper room of your subconscious, there are two guys helping you store your beliefs and issues. Every so often, Gus and Joe throw up your beliefs to the conscious mind to check and see if you still want to keep them.  Beliefs like:  It always happens to me, I’m the world’s victim, stuff like that. If you react to them in a negative way, instead of responding to them in a realistic way, they get put back on the shelf in your subconscious room to be used again the next time an appropriate situation comes up for you.

XI. THOUGHTS ARE THINGS THAT CREATE AFTER THEMSELVES: The Law of Mind Action.  If you’re still thinking the same old thoughts, based on the same old engrams, YOU WILL KEEP SENDING OUT THE SAME ENERGY.

XII. EVERY THOUGHT COMES BACK TO YOU.  THOUGHTS CREATE KARMIC CONSEQUENCES.

XIII. NOTHING WILL CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE UNTIL YOU CHANGE THE FREQUENCY YOU’RE BROADCASTING ON and you can’t change the frequency of your brain waves until you change the perceptual reality that is creating the waves.

The human mind is both a transmitter and a receiver much the same as your radio.

Years ago Kurlian photography was able to take pictures of the energy waves our thoughts create and send out into the universe. The Delta camera takes pictures of acorns that when developed, show the oak tree not the acorn.  It takes pictures of embryos which show up as
full term babies.

XIV. THOUGHTS ARE BASED ARE BELIEFS,  FEELINGS ARE BASED ON THOUGHTS, ACTIONS ARE BASED ON FEELINGS.

Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

XV. WORDS ARE THOUGHT FORMS WITH POWER AND ENERGY TO CREATE AND SOLIDIFY INTO CONCRETE REALITY. It is not what goes into the mouth of man that corrupts, it is what comes out, for it reflects the person’s personal code.

XVI. “I CLAIM THE POWER TO CREATE MY WORLD BY THINKING AND SPEAKING ONLY THOSE IDEAS I INTEND TO MANIFEST. I celebrate my ability to co-create my world.  Thank you universe for entrusting me with the energy to bless my life and my world.”

XVII. WE GET WHAT WE EXPECT. That’s why positive thinking and visualization work. SO REALITY IS NOTHING MORE THAN REALIZING YOUR OWN EXPECTATIONS. Read  ” THE BIOLOGY BEHIND CREATING YOUR OWN REALITY.”

XVIII. The sum of the chemical secretions in our brains and bodies create our emotions and OUR EMOTIONS BIAS OUR MEMORY AND BEHAVIOR SO WE AUTOMATICALLY GET WHAT WE EXPECT.

Changing your beliefs is the key to emotional freedom, getting rid of your excess emotional baggage from the past will give you a fresh start in life.

IV. OUR EMOTIONS ARE CONSTANTLY REGULATING WHAT WE EXPERIENCE AS REALITY.

XV. WE ARE CREATING EVERY MINUTE.   The choice to be made is to create deliberately rather than unconsciously.  When people do not act deliberately,
 transparent beliefs govern their lives and they feel swept along and out of
 control. by the events of their lives.

XVI. I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR THE REALITIES I SEE, HEAR, AND FEEL, THE GOALS I ACHIEVE, EVERYTHING I ATTRACT.

And in this fact is my power, for I can always change my programming, energy, beliefs, actions, thoughts, words, and signals.

If we wish to change our reality, and our experiences, we must learn to manage our beliefs because belief is the determining factor of our reality. Beliefs are the thought forms through which you create, interpret and interact with reality. They are specialized thought forms that continuously create experiences.

XVII. HANDLING BELIEF SYSTEMS CAN BE EASY AND EFFORTLESS

HOMEWORK
READING:

 Resurfacing Workbook  pages: 75-87
 Living Deliberately  pages 73-79

EXERCISES:

1. OPERATING BELIEFS  Workbook Page 77

2. BELIEF AND INDOCTRINATION   Workbook   Page 80

3. EXPLORING DEFINITION    Workbook   Page 86

4. TRANSPARENT BELIEF EXERCISES  Workbook   Page  81

Resurfacing, Harry Palmer 1987
Living Deliberately, Harry Palmer 1987 
Transform Your Life Instantly: Mental Erasers Make Your Mind Work for You Instead of Against You © 2005, Adele Tartaglia